When was the last time you initiated sex with your husband? If you don’t recall or it’s past over a month, or maybe you have never done that before, it appears you have a lot of reading and work to do. Sex is nothing to be ashamed of, most especially when it’s being practiced with your Spouse.
When was the last time you initiated sex with your husband? If you don’t recall or it’s past over a month, or maybe you have never done that before, it appears you have a lot of reading and work to do. Sex is nothing to be ashamed of, most especially when it’s being practiced with your Spouse.
If sex was mainly for the course of procreation then there won’t be need for physical contact because you could always get pregnant from a sperm donor and insemination.
Men seem to be the one’s who initiate sex more than their spouse, sometimes women are of the believe that it is the duty of the man to always initiate sex, so they just lay in bed facing the ceiling and trying to seduce the man in their minds, and the man is just lying there thinking if you actually want to have sex with him and he is scared to pitch because he hates rejection.
The man doesn’t want to start his engines and then find out that there’s a road block ahead (if you know what we mean). Dear wife, how do you initiate sex and make your husband feel wanted again?
You know, it’s not only women that love to feel wanted, men also do, they like to feel like kings and treated with care as well, especially when he treats you right.
Here are top five ways to initiate sex with your spouse and bring the fire back to your home
Do Not Be Embarrassed About It
There is totally nothing to be ashamed of, initiating sex does not make you a bad person, it only shows that you are human too. Shake the thought of be being embarrassed off, this is your husband and not a stranger on the road, his seen all of you and knows you deeply. So, go for it girl.
Do Not Overthink This Move
Overthinking could even take you out of the mood,too many what if questions, “what if he pushes me away, what if his engine fails, what if the children wake up, what if I don’t follow through, what if his tired?” The list is endless, at the end of the day what you have ended up achieving is filling your mind with negative thoughts which would definitely hinder you from initiating sex with your husband.
Flirt With Your Husband
Yes girl!! not only men are flirts, start talking about sex from the get go, send him seductive messages, ask him funny flirty questions “would you mind looking down there for me, it feels kind of needy?” “My nipples seem to be missing, could you find them, for me?” Like we said funny questions that gives him the clue of were you are heading to. Give your husband the best oral sex of his life. You could go as far as sending him nudes, but be sure that it doesn’t leak on Cloud.
Do Not beat Around The Bush
Let’s assume you couldn’t flirt with your husband because you were too ashamed of it, when he finally gets back home, go straight to the point, stop giving signs that don’t work “I am off to bed, are you coming?” Oh pelesse, that is so boring(insert the frown emoji here), the man would just get tired so easily. Be fun, stop being so uptight to your man, it’s called marriage not flat mates.
Pull Through And Be Active
We do not know how to emphasize this more, you need to pull through, do not get all this ideas into your mans head and then when the time finally comes, you give excuses, that would demoralize your man. Men sometimes have a better sexual urge than their spouse, so most times they try not to initiate sex so as to make you feel comfortable.
But if you finally do, please give that man the coin he truly deserves. One last thing, do not be like a log of wood when the action starts, take charge, get on top and show that man that you need him too and that your also a beast yourself. You might end up getting a some Gucci shoes, and a baecation, when that happens do not forget to Vote Spice TV as the Fashion TV platform of the year for the MAN Awards.
